We talked about future looking good for us as a couple. However, saying all this, I agree with you in parts, that marriage is a piece of paper. Life is full of strange and sweet irony. And you risk scaring a great guy off. My masculine nature wants to take care of women and children — especially my own.
However inspite of whatever issue his mother has for me more of an imaginary thing goin on in her mind , she told me you guys should marry in the next two three years atleast. Sharing your feelings with him is fine, but you want it to be from a place of love and understanding and not from a place of frustration and impatience. Pisces men gravitate to women who are also very kind and do volunteer work or rescue animals in need. If the guy is having those kinds of fears, you might want to consider a prenuptial agreement. If he pressures you into sex but makes no commitment and this is assuming you do not want no-strings-attached casual fun, you want marriage , then tell him to take a hike and keep dating other men.
Any advice would be truly appreciated. Good luck on your journey and I hope my writing helps you along the way. Make sure to do it at a time when both are in good spirits and have clear heads. If you want commitment and have been together more than two years, it is time for the next step. You could be completely overwhelming and stressing the poor guy out with your incessant wedding chatter. Christmas then came around and he I invited him to spend it with my family but he said he wanted to spend it reflecting on 2013 and planning 2014. Men also like women who are physically attractive.
If he breaks out in a cold sweat, back off. He is quite the fragile one, but once he feels safe and comfortable with you, he makes for a great partner. Now, should I tell him about my mind and feelings? If the scales are tipped and unbalanced we can tip them to a harmonious equilibrium. It is important to date other men as well. We were never intimate but got closer.
As for an in depth, step by step guide on how to ask for more commitment and how to ask for marriage, this is something I put together for you in the new Commitment ControlÂ 2. It could be for a variety of reasons. Has he offered to take you out to dinner and gotten you flowers? Okay, so in this scenario, things have progressed up to a point, and then kind of stalled out. We women need to be more brave than we are being. Now i am wondering what is his concerned. But, if I find such a man, then the door will close for you.
And it hurts so bad because I asked him multiple times but he assured me again and again. I got a new job which kept me very busy, joined a gym and starting making goals for myself and my future. Drop your comments in the comment section. This truth you speak of is not a magic wand to get us a proposal when we feel like it. I expressed my feelings of wanting a family and a home.
Getting that close and then having the rug pulled out from under you like that; being told that he has an imaginary girl in his mind and he is afraid if he marries you he will lose his chance of finding her! If you want to get marry you do not even need to have sex with him if you do not want to. To get him to commit he has to think you are the best and fear losing you at the same time Imagine you have been in a relationship with a man for a long time. I am from India where families play a huge role in this matter. . I have given him 20 years of my life and a son also my children call him daddy and they were very young when we got together. Scorpios can be intense, and if you can prove that there's nothing he can do that's too much for you, he'll want to make you his wife as quickly as possible.
You just have to know that you are signing up for a life of adventure and excitement with an air sign. Some are much more intelligent than some psychology major with 60000 in student loans. But then he said he loved and wanted to marry me in the future so I should wait for him. No one can be 100% sure that we will live happily ever after with the individual we choose, but what we can do is live in the moment, take what is offered, give what is due. If you show him that you can be there for him, even if he says nothing about his problem, he'll know you're the one.
And waiting three years or more to get hitched. He always wants to know what you want with him or what you expect going forward. But a guy knows whats most of the tine in his head. Well then I was out of town for 3 days for work and would text him about things that were going on and he was very unresponsive which is not like him so when I got back home on Wednesday as was asking how his week was he said he had a lot on his mind and I said I could tell and do you want to talk about it. After this I had hopes of us getting back together but it did not happen and I know part of it was me over sharing with novel messages of my emotions and feels on the situation but I never blamed him for any of it. I saw him two more times after he moved and at this point it was February and I had begun to develop feelings for him. I just started seeing a therapist to help deal with my personal issues from my past and my recent break up.