They are, for the most part, pretty basic rules that should be common sense, but sometimes we just need a good reminder on how to be a good friend, so here are some of the basic ones that any girl should know: Rule 1: Look out for your friends when they are talking to a new guy Whether this is by stalking him on Facebook, talking to his friends or even striking up a quick conversation with him, you should always make sure that your best friend is talking to a good quality guy. Guys value something only when they have to work hard to achieve it. One day she hopes to work for a marketing or advertising firm coming up with new advertising techniques and ideas. Tell your friend if you see flaky patches on her skin, if her skirt is too short or if there is something between her teeth. When she shows you pictures of her date on Facebook, you will remark that you're surprised the image didn't break the computer screen.
There is girl code and personally I would not date a guy who dated one of my friends even if she gave ok. If the date went horribly, you will buy her a drink and repeatedly tell her you've never heard of anything so terrible in your life, that you can't believe that happened to her even if secretly you think she's sort of overreacting. Make sure she is all right and get her home safe or if necessary call the police. I really like girl A, we use to talk a load about 1 years ago, but since she got a boyfriend we stop talking. B Someone she dated only casually, a long time ago? No Girl-On-Girl Crime Unless It's A Mutual Enemy Talking smack is never a good look, but sometimes it's necessary to make ourselves feel better we all have flaws. Unless you fall madly, passionately, permanently in love, in which case, you're in a pretty tight spot. If the split was amicable, then it's probably fine for you to remain friends.
The more you whine, the easier you are to read. Block yourself emotionally to him so you seem harder to read, which makes you harder to impress, which then makes you a lot more desirable and attractive. Then you can inquire about any of his cute friends for yourself and she can be your wing woman. When you're out together and single. Offering another lady a tampon is like giving Lamar Odom a second lease on life -- you are saving her from complete humiliation.
It's kind of like being someone's mother -- you have to be proud of all the things she shares with the world, including her uploads especially the ones where she's skinny-arm posing, head slightly tilted to the side and most likely stealing the scene. If this guy really does suck, she'll see it eventually, or it will become obvious that no one in your group of friends loves the guy. Do not hold back or otherwise play games with sex. If you do you would know if they actually follow those self destructive codes do complicate their lives also to shot themselves in the foot to find the one. If a friend is asking you if she should with her ex who on her, never wanted to hang out with her and than blamed her for them breaking up, and you say 'Yes', than you're a. All I could think about was how I thought it was a universal rule that good friends do not date people their friends have had any type of relationship with, let alone a two year on and off one—that had just ended a month prior.
Just don't invite the old ball and chain all the time. It sucks that your friend seems to spend all her time with her Significant Other, but you've been in love before, right? We're in this together, girls. I liked this guy before, he liked me. Instead: Respectfully tell her that you think she would be more comfortable in another outfit or kindly suggest a little less bronzer bronzer is almost always the culprit of rough, clown-looking makeup. Female friendships specifically can get a little complicated, which is why we have a certain set of rules that define what should be praised and what should be looked down upon.
Normally if you are asking permission to date a person and the person you are asking happens to say no—you do not do it anyway. If she really loves the guy barring extreme circumstances , you've just got to be a supportive friend. Girls worry too much of what he will think- forget that! Every guy wants to date a nice girl. Instead: Talk to her about why you think he is unfit for someone as great as her. And be there for her, without judgement, if she relapses into the hysteria of Stage One again. If you date Girl B, Girl A will not be available.
If a friend is flashing some ta-ta that evening, it is absolutely your personal friendly-female right to touch them. And if you ever find yourself navigating the tricky waters of a new relationship and old friendships, make sure you're putting in time with just your girlfriends, while also making an effort to integrate your significant other into the group. Just wait for girl A to be single then you can pursue. Exception: If a guy cheated or dumped your friend is is exceptional for you to claim he isn't good enough, and that she deserves better as well as reminding her that he was an asshole anyway. If my friend or best friend ever dated someone I liked, someone I have a past with I don't think I could ever forgive them.
Giving up strong friendships for a fling will only leave you in a mess of your own making. This rule is crucial when going out. Instead: Let your friend confide in you, she trusts you to be there for her to vent. If I was girl B, I'd know you like girl A. And Carrie's lame dilemmas will help take your girlfriend's mind off her crappy breakup, job loss or rotten day.
How much have you shown your affection to girl A in the past , did you let her know you like her or was it just a friendly conversation? Let her know she can come over to your place at any time, if she just needs to be around other people. Well in this case she decided my feelings and friendship were less meaningful to her than her newfound relationship with him and still continues to build her relationship with him. Want to know what is worse than a creep? Go out with her if she feels ready, be understanding and supportive if she doesn't. It is unlikely that you will get the chance to date girl A in that scenario. It doesn't matter if he has horrible breath, makes vaguely inappropriate remarks whenever she leaves the room, woefully takes advantage of her, has terrible taste in music, or sucks the life out of every party with his mere presence. Rule 6: Tell a girl if something looks a tad off If someone has lipstick on her teeth or ever has her shirt on inside out, you should always tell her. To this day our relationship has dissipated significantly and it still makes me sick to think about.